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wazzajohn 50 M
1  Article
Breaking up by mobile   10/21/2004

What are we becoming when people are using their mobile phone to end relationships? All you have to do is send a text to the person that you are breaking up with and it's all over. This is a person that you have shared interment moment with, have cared for and maybe even loved. I think if you are going to break up with your partner it should be done face to face. Have the guts to stand ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
rolee1999 53 M
3  Articles
Back to friends?   10/21/2004

I have been dating this woman for almost a year and a half, we eventually moved in together. I am paying for everything so she can go back to school. Last month she told me that she just wants to be friends again. I keep asking for sex but she just shoots me down. Last weekend she said she was tires of the pressure and she moved out to live with family until she finishes school, but she ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 33 Votes ,4.71 Score
RE: Why Should Women Accept it When Men Cheat.......   10/20/2004

Tigress...I am sorry for your pain but I heard some advice a long time ago concerning being involved with a married man. If he will cheat on his wife (who may also be the mother of his )...someone he presumably has an emotional and financial connection to...what makes you think he wouldn't also cheat on you?


1 Comments, 28 Views, 56 Votes ,8.58 Score
rm_accionhero 39 M
1  Article
she is a biatch   10/18/2004

my ex is a biatch she has to fuck with anyone she even fucked with her cousin! and she doesnt know why? we still have sex but i wonder wat is going thru her head! if someone can explain me why she fucks with ppl without thinking that it could be wrong that pls contact me!


1 Comments, 9 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score
rm_MysticOne1 47 F
1  Article
Why does it hurt when a married man says MY WIFE KNOWS   10/16/2004

I was just wondering why does it hurt when a man says my wife knows about you.Love is not supposed to hurt.But when he told me i cannot see you anymore my wife found all your emails it hurt i cried i 100% fell in love with this guy i know he still loves me and i told him i still love him.He did not mean to hurt me or break my heart or make me cry but he did he is sorry for that but it still ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
is it worth chasing a old flame   10/16/2004

Aold flame wants to start again.after a few years of abscence is it worth it.??//


0 Comments, 10 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
GF DRIVING ME NUTS!!!   10/13/2004

I am currently in a horrible relationship and am finding myself flirting with other women and pursuing other things with them. How am i supposed to make it any easier to break up without any feelings being hurt..... or stuff being broken lol


1 Comments, 71 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
SexFiend999 41 F
1  Article
When TSdates.com/Alt.com became a real let down   10/12/2004

I had met someone that was on both TSdates.com and Alt.com last fall. His words were so charming that I had become blind and hypnotized to realize to his negative actions. He was married to someone else that he had chosen to deceive and manipulate while he was going with me, all the while claiming, "I found my true love on TSdates.com/Alt.com" concerning me. The first time we went out, he bought me a gold ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
here today gone tomorrow   10/11/2004

I was playing with a guy on the internet. He said all the right words and was planning a future or so I thought for us. Then we talk on the phone one day and he tells me he's not over his last love. She dumped him when the going got tough. Why can't men just move on and not hurt another woman?


5 Comments, 290 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
Break Up   10/10/2004

Recently, My Girlfriend Of 17 Months Broke Up With Me. There Were No Warning Signs Everything Was Great. We Talked About Marriage, The Whole Bit,Quite A Few Times. The Reasons She Gave Me Were Totaly Lame. For Example She Said She Needed To "Find Herself". Everyone I Tell That Too Just Laughs, We Talked A Few Times On The Phone, The Other Day I Sent Her A Card For What Would Have Been Our 18 ...


2 Comments, 28 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_timmor12 35 M
6  Articles
Don't lead the girl on, you could be in trouble   10/6/2004

if you are not interested in a girl, it is best to just let her know up front, instead of waiting until she has fallin in love with you to do it. This way, you can avoid her trying to frame you and don't have to worry about her dad's shot gun.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 38 Votes ,8.13 Score
kitty_meowmeow 40 C
1  Article
RE:Why do i still love him?   10/5/2004

Hey. Just saw your article. I know exactly what your going through. My ex and I broke up a year n 5 mths ago. We went out for 8 mths, he said that if we were both single at the end of a year, we would get back together again. Hasn't happened yet, instead i am living with him as roommates right now or as he likes to call us "Fuck Buddies". We are both still single but it doesn't look like we ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
holding me back   9/27/2004

what do you do when your in a relationship of a very long time but you want to experiment with other people but dont want to hurt the other persons feelings. Can i say its just sex ? will that work?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 39 Votes ,6.33 Score
Why should women accept it when men cheat on us???   9/26/2004

I recently ended a relationship with a married man I was with. I don't really know, I think I should be honest to myself and say he ended it. <br> This guy was sleeping with countless women. I wanted to believe that I was the only other woman he was involved with. Even though I could see right through him. <br> My best friend (female) talked all the time that if she is ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 36 Votes ,7.81 Score
Relationships ‒ Past & Present   9/24/2004

Relationships ‒ Past & Present <br> It's probably not love after only one month, or even six months. It's lust. And while there's nothing wrong with lust, attempting to base a long-term, complex, often trying relationship on it isn't usually a good idea. <br> Believe, without question (but without desperation either), in your heart and your head that he is ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 38 Votes ,6.89 Score
rm_Lustre2004 43 F
1  Article
A Poem About Being it Over   9/14/2004

"Let Go" <br> Eventhough I love you There's something you should know It's hard for me to do this But I have to let you go <br> The past two years meant nothing It was all just a lie You could never forgive me You ignored me when I'd cry <br> You think you are so perfect You've never made a mistake But take a step outside yourself And see how ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 21 Votes ,5.23 Score
treat them mean!   9/6/2004

rite y is it that when you find someone you love dearly they always start 2 abuse the relationship. is the old sayn true.... treat them mean keep em keen??? realy true???


1 Comments, 23 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
aquarius_sg_guy 47 M
9  Articles
What is the best way to breakup without hurting his/ her?   8/24/2004

Hello to all, <br> What is the best way to breakup without hurting his/ her?


7 Comments, 350 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
imtocute2000 40 F
6  Articles
online   7/18/2004

The worst way to break up is online! Guys don't do it! that just as bad as writing a letter!


0 Comments, 26 Views, 24 Votes ,5.97 Score
Icemanpat 36 M
1  Article
Break up in person?   7/9/2004

Do you think it's better to break up in person, as opposed to over the phone?


0 Comments, 10 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
twisty1982 41 F
7  Articles
men can really suck...   7/3/2004

im so tierd of men saying they love you just for a little ass and then when they get it they dont want you anymore why is that..if you just want ass then say it dont tell us u love us and then say u dont mean it ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 23 Votes ,5.11 Score
Manners and Respect cost nothing   6/23/2004

Recently I got chatting to someone on here who is currently living in another country. We appeared to get on like a house on fire and so the texts emails faxes and calls all mounted up. Things appeared to be going very well and we made an arrangement to meet the next time he was due to come over to the UK. He appeared to be an honest kind genuine person and against my better judgement I ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 33 Votes ,8.47 Score
RE: Admitting you've cheated .....   4/20/2004

You are absolutely right when you say, your admission of infidelity may do more harm than good. By coming clean about cheating, you may absolve yourself of guilt, by coming forward with the truth and asking (begging) forgiveness. However, your problem then becomes your partner's problem (nightmare) and everything you felt plus more gets dumped on your partner - the one you have already ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 25 Votes ,6.89 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
If there is a right way?   4/17/2004

Is there a right way to break up? Should there be a mutual break up? Should the couple just ignore each other? What do you think? Suggestions?


0 Comments, 54 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_lilnortylola 39 F
3  Articles
When breaking it off with a female.   4/12/2004

*try to talk it through first. *Be honest. *Dont list our faults-it doesn't help. *Tell us, calmly and rationally what went wrong. *Try to be calm; yelling and name calling aren't a way of breaking up, they are a way of causing MORE pain. *Dont string us along uneccessarily for weeks, that makes it worse. *don't say sorry. It pisses us off more. *break it clean *dont promise ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
sexlovers2266 46 C
6  Articles
friend can't seem to get away from gf   3/29/2004

What is it with nice guys, not being able to get rid of the women that screw around on them and don't respect them? I have a friend who is the nicest guy in the world....treated his gf like gold....she cheated on him often, hid it from him forever, and he has now found out. I'm scared he's going to get back with her though, i'm wondering if anyone has some advice i could give him....to help ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 19 Votes ,6.03 Score
girlordinary 42 F
1  Article
How do you let go?   3/29/2004

How do you let go of someone? How do you cure a broken heart? Everyone says time - but I'm finding that time just hurts... they have moved on and you're still left there lapping at your wounds. <br> Take it one day at a time. Time heals everything. I'm tired of hearing this. I want strong arms around me at night. I want to feel closeness again.


2 Comments, 128 Views, 39 Votes ,5.92 Score
Completely Oblivious To His Cheating   3/14/2004

We had dated for 2+ years he is in the Army. He just came home for a week leave and he cheated on me and got caught and he telld me that this has been going on since this summer. He's cheating with his Sister-in-law's sister in law. Needless to say I broke up with him and sent in on the plane back to Georgia this morning begging for mercy.


3 Comments, 261 Views, 59 Votes ,5.37 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Honour & Pain   1/17/2004

There is a thing called honour which seems to have fallen out of fashion. Honour is what is owed to someone that you may have once cared enough about to get involved in a relationship with. Honour is telling that person the truth, no matter how difficult it may be. Honour is showing your partner respect and treating them as you would want them to treat you. It is not having an affair and ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Never Fall For A Married Man   12/29/2003

That is exacly what I did. He wrote an ad seeking a female friend and I answered it. It led to 7 months of wonderful times and fine memories. All while I knew he was married, he was with me most nights after work and went home to her 2-3 weekends per month. He lived and worked in different towns. I stressed how much honesty meant to me and we vowed to always be honest. He claimed he ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score