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AllJess 35 F
1  Article
I have a question   4/5/2004

Ok. This is for all the bigger girls out there. I'm not a really overweight girl, just a little(which I am working on), but why is it that it doesn't matter what your face looks like, only your body. I'm not a bad looking girl, and I have a pretty cool personality, but that just doesn't seem to matter because I am a bit overweight. Why is it that guys would rather have a skinny dumb chick ...


13 Comments, 175 Views, 21 Votes ,7.09 Score
rm_thickiithick 63 F
1  Article
Breasts and Arousal   4/4/2004

Ladies, have you ever been with a guy who just totally turns you off when he fondles your breasts in an attempt to arouse you and you immediately lose interest to go any further sexually with this person? Men, if you are reading this I hope some of you learn to please us women better and come up with a better technique for breast play. First of all, there is more to the breast than "just ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 20 Votes ,5.55 Score
Anal Sex   3/31/2004

How do I convince my homophobic partner to try anal sex? He thinks that if he likes anal that he might be gay.


2 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Not worth the time...   3/25/2004

I did the standard member thing for quite some time, since I was not sure if I wanted to cough up the money for a dating site. After a while, I though, hokay, standard members do not get anywhere. The site is very obviously designed to induce you to pay for membership. So I took the plunge, you only live once. <br> Now being a gold member, I can tell you that I will not renew ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
SWINGING FOR THE FIRST TIME   3/24/2004

Hi, We are completly new too swinging life style and have a couple that would like to get togather with us, are feelings are the same (sound like a fun couple) they are visiting our city in few weeks Whats your Advice on DO'S & DON'TS for a couple just starting out?


0 Comments, 216 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Licking a couple?   3/24/2004

Hi, I am posting this again, this time as a question under 'advice'. Has anybody licked a couple as they have sex? I am really curious about it; I guess if a woman gets her clit licked as a man is inside her, the feeling must be great. I find the idea incredibly arousing, though nobody seems to talk about it and the only porn I have seen where it actually happens is about FMF threesomes, ...


1 Comments, 60 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
superman7573 51 C
1  Article
3SOME ETIQUTE   3/19/2004

Is there 3some etiqute? I have had a couple now and always semm to want to spend more time with the girl who has joined in, i still do spend time with my wife but not as much is this bad? We do always still have great sex after the lady has left.


2 Comments, 233 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
fuckthisbitch2 36 F
1  Article
I'm wondering?   3/15/2004

Are all the guys I meet on here just interested in my tits because of how big they are? I didn't put a pic of my tits on my profile because I feel like that is about the only thing guys want to see. I have a great body and a very nice pussy but all guys ask me is about my tits. So tell me is that all a guy wants is my tits?


0 Comments, 46 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_SeanD71 52 M
8  Articles
3 some question?   3/14/2004

My girlfriend and I have been having a threesome with another woman for sometime now. This weekend my girlfriend was out of town, and I ended up hooking up with our 3some partner. We both agreed not to say anything, but now I'm not sure. Is it cheating, should i tell my girlfriend.


0 Comments, 65 Views, 73 Votes ,8.20 Score
Starrblaster41 75 M
7  Articles
Wanting to enjoy receiving a male anal gang bang?   3/10/2004

To the guy who said he had been fucked up the ass last weekend for the first time, enjoyed it, and now was being offered the same thing by his buddy and four of his friends..... IF you are POSITIVE that they are all HIV negative, then if I were you I'd GO FOR IT !! Have some KY on hand, start out with a dildo or butt plug, then a larger diameter one, then take on the guy with the thinnest ...


1 Comments, 296 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Rthewoman4u 52 F
1  Article
Looking for a woman 4 a woman...   3/10/2004

When being around sexy woman I am very turned on. Some of them play the game like they are into woman but won't go pass first base. Others you just don't know even though they hang out with you and know that you are in to woman but tells you that isn't there thang. what do you do?


1 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Forced Lactation (Breast Milk)   3/8/2004

My lover wants to suck milk from my very large breasts. He claims there is a techniqur of nipple suction and massage that will make any woman start giving milk. Any ideas or suggestions.


1 Comments, 269 Views, 47 Votes ,5.84 Score
Sexy14UBoys 47 F
2  Articles
Where are all the hot men???   3/6/2004

I joined this site because I am moving soon and just got out of a bad relationship. I wanted to meet someone to just have a good time with for the next few months that I am here. All the men that have responded are either not my type or just want the occasional one night stand. Dont get me wrong one night stands are good from time to time but whats up with all the hot muscular men? Where ...


9 Comments, 748 Views, 34 Votes ,2.79 Score
Playing seperately   3/3/2004

I am curious how many of the swinging couples play seperately and what kind of out come this has had on your relationship. Isn't the whole reason for doing the "lifestyle" to enhance YOUR sexual relationship?


1 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Curious3904 57 C
1  Article
Bicuriosity   3/3/2004

We been married for 25 years lately we have talked about having sex with other people of the same sex. He wants to see me with another woman and I am really considering it. He also wants to experience an encounter with a male. Any advice?


3 Comments, 104 Views, 0 Votes
VeryCurious1960 63 F
5  Articles
Pics   2/28/2004

To all the men out there who have their pictures on TSdates.com I would like to give you alittle advice. It is always great looking at a picture of a nice hard cock but I think most women on here agree with me when I say that seeing a face shot would be nice to. There is more to a man then the size of his buddy. Myself I love a man's eyes and smile. So please when you are adding pictures to you ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 65 Votes ,8.53 Score
ravenstarr33610 47 F
2  Articles
how do i get someone to leave me alone....   2/26/2004

this guy that i met online wont leave me alone...its like he is obssessed...he somehow knows when im online even though i am invisible and whenever i go to a chat room all of a sudden he appears there too....wht is up with that...i dont understand how he is doing that...is there some kind of program that tells him everything i am doing on my puter and how the hell did he get access to my ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 19 Votes ,6.68 Score
sex and the bbw   2/22/2004

After reading an article and being pleased at someone saying that larger women can have fun....! I would like to add something to that! Us BBW's do like sex, we can have wonderful sex! Don't judge us by our size! So many men on TSdates.com do, don't judge the book by it's cover! We can do the same things 'normal' sized women do, in fact most bbws are very active in the bedroom! We love ...


6 Comments, 164 Views, 31 Votes ,7.65 Score
JacknJillxxx 40 C
2  Articles
videotaping the moment   2/20/2004

My husband and I are free-spirited people with a normal and perfectly sex life. We've done things like light bondage and taking photos of one another, etc. We are also very open with one another and any partners we encounter. The thing that has me somewhat bugged is that I would like to make a video of us with someone else running the camera for a change. The idea really turns us both on ...


1 Comments, 72 Views, 42 Votes ,8.16 Score
Female Ejaculation...is it a myth?   2/16/2004

Ok, I've read articles and also have seen videos where there are women that squirt when they cum. Ever since I saw an article on the subject, I've been more than intrigued. I must know how to do this! When I have sex, I enjoy penetration, oral the 9 yards. However, I can't seem to squirt. Is this something that women can really do or is it a myth. How does one achieve such mind ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,5.84 Score
Truth or dare!   2/13/2004

I have recently found out that my husband is searching for something more sexually. I have found this out by coming across an email he has received. The email wasn't quite clear as to whether or not they were male, female, part of a couple or single. It just stated that they would be willing to meet to do some explicit things to my husband. In the email it did mention bisexual but ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
personal selfish poeple   2/8/2004

it give alot of poeple who while into the swinging scene, when they meet start after things start in a good way, act in a jealous way, (not able to cum when the other in the room, not able to get hard....)those poeple just do not want to understand that it is about sex and not relationship. what are the sing to find those kind of poeple and to leave them on the side?


0 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,0.01 Score
Am I alone?   2/3/2004

I'm a 45yo male, always been straight, happily married with family etc.Recently I've been fantasising about dressing in sexy women's clothes(stockings, heels etc)and sucking a guys cock, and maybe even letting him fuck me.The idea of m/m sex as a man doesn't excite me, just the crossdressing part.Anyone else in AFFland like me?If so, I could use some help.


2 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
rm_blossom33178 47 C
1  Article
Women going to strip clubs   2/2/2004

For women to find the right strip club to have fun at is hard. The best ones we have found and we have been all over the country is in the ST.louis area, manily PT's strip club. After midnight its about 50 % women and 50 % men, lots of couples and single girls, have fun.


1 Comments, 246 Views, 10 Votes ,6.17 Score
3Way   2/2/2004

My girl and I have talked about 3way sex before and we are both interested, but can not agree how to find the person. I feel that we should build a relationship with the girl first, but her thoughts are more geared toward meeting someone online and just doing it. I don’t know what the best way is to go about this, I would be more comfortable with someone that I know, but she thinks ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
rm_sexbius 60 T
2  Articles
So, you did not get a response and wonder why   1/31/2004

I guess I've been lucky with the response we have had after we posted some sexy pictures. After we posted pics it increased the views to our profile by 20 times than we had with no pics posted. Well the point is when you have more people that view you, you will get more response. Either with a wink, added to their hotlist or with an e-mail from them. In one day we had 31 e-mails saying ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
2sexy4one6969 45 C
1  Article
am i making something out of nothing?   1/29/2004

My husband spends alot of time on IMC chatting and trading pics with single woman. This doesn't bother me the think that pisses me off is he will only go on there when i'm not home. He makes a point of trying to cover his tracks so i don't find out what he's doing ( not very well obviously). He will even try to hide the pics he get in different files hoping i won't find them. He insists ...


2 Comments, 112 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
rm_saetia 56 F
1  Article
Orgasms affect my hearing!   1/29/2004

Okay, so I have sent this in to Maxim and Playboy but neither have responded. I am a 37yo female who has VERY intense orgasms that affect my hearing...I lose most of my hearing for several minutes to hours after cumming really hard. I want to know what causes this and if it happens to other people! <br> Thanks, <br> Deaf Sexy girl !


2 Comments, 321 Views, 12 Votes ,6.69 Score
rm_5069103 61 M
3  Articles
HOW-TO's: male-to-female   1/28/2004

HEY (FEMME)GUYS: as another genetic male that's considered myself "Transgendered" since a pre-, here's my advice to you. Do an online search under "transgender" in your area for you to find support groups that you can visit/join to help you with your desires to dress/behave/appreciate the female sex. While society accepts women that act, behave and dress as men, we T-Girls need and DESERVE ...


3 Comments, 444 Views, 35 Votes ,6.59 Score
Nfriend2ve 46 F
4  Articles
RE: Test Cum   1/28/2004

Oh yes and it goes wit the saying "you are what you eat"! Most men worries when their girlfriend refuse to give them blow jobs, but ignore them when they say "honey do you mind smoking for a while?" nicotine make sperm test and smell bad so who would like to swallow them. So guys avoid things like too much garlic, onions, smoking etc. Pineapple give the sperms the best test. Most important ...


1 Comments, 127 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score